“I know I have cancer but please, leave me alone with my vibrator.” This isn’t a warning just the title of a personal essay I wrote. Speaking of sex, do you want to talk about the hymen? Or, maybe something less obtuse and a bit vanilla? I also write about starring into the abyss, and female health issues like periods and PMDD. When my head isn’t in the vaginal gutter, it’s in emotional turmoil trying to sound like Sally Rooney, read at your own risk.